/u/MiaLba on Please help us adopt a newborn with a private adoption agency for $55K in the US. We don’t want to foster or adopt through the government bc the kids are older. We are first time parents and don’t think we have enough experience. We want a ne

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Yeah I don’t think many people on her realize how fucked up the entire foster care system is. And how much of a mess it is going through all that. It’s difficult for everyone involved. It’s not going to be some magical happily after.