No one is bullying them. They are the ones who brought up the fostering. The young couple is free without any judgment for wanting a newborn baby. Most people do. The issue isn’t that they aren’t fostering instead. The issue is that they want the public to fund $55K for agency fees and birth mom fees and use how terrible the foster system is with such terribly damage kids as a justification for why people should donate bc they are good people who thought about fostering and may even do it in the future. But, first, we want to test drive an infant. It’s manipulative and icky.