/u/GaddafisPsychoanal on Please help us adopt a newborn with a private adoption agency for $55K in the US. We don’t want to foster or adopt through the government bc the kids are older. We are first time parents and don’t think we have enough experience.

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It sounds like you're implying the mother shouldn't be allowed to change her mind? Maybe she would've been able to keep her baby instead of giving it up to strangers if that money had gone to her instead.