With spring in full bloom and summer just around the corner, more people are seeking a partner in crime to enjoy the warm weather with. Of course, these light-hearted romantic and/or sexual relationships might be fleeting, so it’s important to understand whether you’re on the same page before getting too attached.“While summer romances often focus on fun and physical attraction, certain behaviors can signal that your fling partner sees you as more than just a seasonal distraction,” says a rep from Monsta Toys. “These green flags go beyond surface-level chemistry and point toward genuine compatibility that could last well beyond Labor Day.”Here are seven signs your summer fling might progress into something more serious.1. They Remember The small thingsIf someone is just interested in a physical connection, they likely won’t waste time actually getting to know you. “When someone is genuinely interested in you beyond a summer fling, they pay attention to what you say and remember it later,” the rep says. “This goes beyond remembering your coffee order or favorite beach spot. They recall stories about your family, your work stress, or that random childhood memory you shared during a late-night conversation.”2. They Introduce You To their peopleA person who introduces you to their friends and family might be more interested in a future with you. Of course, this doesn’t always point to long-term commitment, but it’s a good sign they’re actually invested in your connection.“A major green flag is when your summer romance starts including you in their regular life rather than keeping you separate from it,” the rep says. “They might invite you to meet their friends at a barbecue, bring you along to their weekly tennis game, or suggest you join them for a family gathering.”3. They’re Emotionally Available During Difficult MomentsWhen you imagine yourself in an emergency or enduring a difficult time, could you picture leaning on your summer fling for support? If so, you might have more than just a situationship on your hands.“Summer flings typically avoid heavy topics and focus on keeping things light and fun,” the rep says. “But life doesn’t pause for vacation mode, and real connections emerge when someone shows up for you during challenging times.”4. They Make Future Plans with youSomeone who’s just in it for the moment likely won’t factor you into their future plans. However, if your fling is making plans with you for autumn or even the holidays, they might be considering taking the next step in your relationship. “These future-focused conversations happen organically, not as pressure-filled ‘where is this going’ discussions,” the rep says. “They’re simply thinking about you in their future because they want you there.”5. They’re consistent and communicativeUnfortunately, consistency is difficult to find today—even in committed relationships. If your fling maintains regular communication and frequently checks up on you, they might be interested in more than just the physical aspect of your relationship. “Fling communication is often sporadic and convenience-based, encompassing late-night texts, last-minute hangout invitations, and radio silence during busy periods,” the rep says. “But someone developing deeper feelings maintains more consistent contact, even when life gets hectic.”6. They ask for your Thoughts And OpinionsSomeone who cares about you will be interested in your thoughts, feelings, and perspectives. If someone shuts you down or belittles your opinions, it’s not worth progressing your fling into something more committed.“Beyond asking what you want to do tonight, someone with a serious interest will seek out your perspectives on various topics,” says Monsta Toys. “They might ask your opinion about a movie, want to know your thoughts on current events, or seek your advice about a decision they’re making.”7. They Respect Your Boundaries and set their ownBoundaries are crucial in any relationship, and when it comes to summer flings, the way your partner respects yours and sets their own will tell you a lot about their intentions.“In casual summer flings, boundaries often remain unspoken or get pushed aside in favor of ‘going with the flow,’” says the rep. “But someone considering a real relationship will have honest conversations about what they’re comfortable with and respect your limits without making you feel guilty.”The post 7 Signs Your Summer Fling Is Catching Feelings (Even If You’re Not) appeared first on VICE.