Relationship woes are a common sight on TikTok, people often seek the advice of others online when their partner or spouse is treating them poorly. In this case a woman’s story has sparked a debate on the app after she revealed she cut all her hair off without warning her husband. Now the husband is refusing to speak to her unless she’s wearing a wig. While the account which posted the original videos has gone private on the app, many have already responded to the situation and given their thoughts on the matter. One TikToker, @fittedprof, gave her in depth thoughts on the matter, recounting the story of the woman, whose name is Mary. @fittedprof @mary | mindset & mom things #storytime #drama #fyp #recap #haircut ♬ original sound – fittedprof Mary, who is in her twenties and married with three kids, decided to chop off all of her hair on a whim. However, the response from her husband was definitely not what she expected. The husband was not pleased with her decision, despite it being her body, he decided to punish her with silence. Before becoming a stay-at-home mom, Mary had quite an intense career, she’s a classically trained pianist and was a music director before taking a job as a corporate accountant. However, halted her career in order to stay home and raise the kids she had with her husband. Her decision to get a buzz cut was borne from her desire to make a choice for herself for once which is why she didn’t ask for anyone else’s opinion. The decision led to her husband refusing to speak to her. He went completely no-verbal until she bought a wig to wear, only then would he talk to her. He also told her, “you need to appease me,” yuck. The debate on TikTok Of course, people on TikTok have been discussing Mary’s decision and who is in the right here. Surprisingly, some are on the husband’s side with one person commenting, “As a married person you can’t make big decisions without talking to your partner.” Another went further with some rather bizarre rhetoric, “He has the right to be upset,” they wrote, “They are a unit and how she presents herself is a reflection of him.” Back on the more sane side of TikTok, people called out the husband for his childish response to the situation, there have even been comparisons to the infamous dog food lunch box lady drama. Some accused the man of of being the source of Mary’s depression as well as being a drain on her mentally which might have been why she decided to cut her hair in the first place. Others suggested divorce which seem like a very real possibility if the husband does not grow up. Some women also shared their own experiences with their male partners having meltdowns over them changing their hair, “My first husband cried when I added lowlights to my blonde,” wrote one woman. Others wondered how the husband would react if Mary had suffered from alopecia or had cancer treatment, “would he have been repulsed by her?” It seems Mary’s husband just needs to grow up and accept his wife’s decision, or else their relationship may well suffer according to TikTok.