To be fair, birth control can fail. Proof that a condom and the pill are not absolutely 100% effective is turning 30 on Saturday. Oh I remember when the doctor told me I was pregnant. Told him he clearly had the wrong chart. He said no. Then I said they clearly mixed up the lab specimens and please check again. He did. I was still pregnant. 😅. However, in OOPs friends case, why is she not able to stay with her partner? Why did he allow his long term partner to end up homeless?