Yeah, this doesn't fit the sub in my mind. My take is she's trying to find someone who had that stroller (it's literally a buy nothing group) and doesn't need it anymore. She might be asking for a new one, but I think it's too speculative to believe that at this point. Community passing of baby stuff is common place, so why not see if you can get the stroller you want the most. I'm seeing that OP messaged this lady, and the lady is saying why are you bothering me, I didn't bother you when you asked for stuff. Seems valid, essentially asking why there is beef over a FB post. Then OP turns it into a what I call a purity contest, when folks grandstand and make a case for how they are superior or their similar behavior is excusable. At this point, I'm reconsidering and viewing this in a new light. From OP's callous title, to the eye rolling thing, and the confrontation, I think I'm on this lady's side. I think OP's a jerk who is looking down on this lady's naivete. Leave her alone.