/u/TheGrumpySmurfer on We had to spend our wedding fund to keep our surprise baby “safe and healthy”. But, not having a wedding is “soul crushing”. So, we need donations for R80,000/$5K for a “real” wedding bf we have a 2nd baby. “I still want the moment,

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u/kapitaalH that's fascinating, Thank you so much for providing that context.