I'm genuinely happy for you that you feel that way, that's beautiful and great that it worked out for both of you. That being said, not everyone shares in that feeling, myself included. I already dislike existing as it is, and if I had that hand dealt to me I would dislike it even more. It's not something everyone can shoulder the burden of with happiness and grace, and, in my opinion, it should not be expected of people. I know I am not alone in this opinion, either. I don't mean this as an attack, just offering a different perspective. Many in your shoes sadly do not share in your sentiment.