"...because if you do I'm going to be the ugliest and most rude person to say something!!" Why do people think this stunt will work? Being rude isn't going to make people want to help you or intimidate them into helping you. There's this weird epidemic of people thinking being nasty will make people side with them and/or make people give them whatever they want. If you insult me, call me slurs, and the like, we're done. I'll walk away (if it's real life) or block you (if it's online) and not give you another second of my time.