Oof, kinda your bad OP. Yeah, they overreacted but you did a big food "no no" which a lot of people get wary over. They said text when you leave, (as in your place) and they'll meet you in the lobby when you get there. you agreed to do this Then you didn't let them know you were on the way (like they asked), didn't meet them (like they asked), and left food unattended for anyone to touch or take.... If you didn't want to do it the way they asked, why would you agree to do it that way?