This happened with a cousin of mine, about 8 years ago. We showed up and literally nothing had been packed, sorted, tossed, or processed in any way. We had to pack up her WHOLE HOUSE, fill a full-sized dumpster, and haul whatever we could across town to a two-bedroom apartment. Most of us were in our 50s or early 60s at a time. A few years later she whined about wanting to move again, and zero of us offered any help.