3 min readNew DelhiApr 17, 2026 08:00 PM ISTAmitabh Bachchan on what keeps his relationship stable (Photo: Wikipedia)In a candid conversation with Simi Garewal, Amitabh Bachchan once reflected on his marriage with Jaya Bachchan, saying, “The best thing about this relationship is Abhishek and Shweta.” The superstar’s statement resonates with many couples who view their children as the strongest bond holding their relationship together. But does staying in a marriage primarily for the sake of children truly serve their well-being, or does it come at a hidden emotional cost?Drawing on insights from Dr Pavitra Shankar, Associate Consultant, Psychiatrist at Aakash Healthcare, here’s a closer look at how such dynamics impact both partners and children.When children become the ‘glue’According to Dr Shankar, while co-parenting can be deeply fulfilling, sustaining a marriage solely for the sake of children may not provide emotional satisfaction to either partner. Over time, this can lead to suppressed conflict, emotional distance, and a gradual breakdown of communication.“Even if arguments are avoided, the absence of warmth and connection can quietly shape the overall family environment,” she explains.DISCLAIMER: This article is based on information from the public domain and/or the experts we spoke to. View this post on Instagram A post shared by Vanshika | Psychology | Human Behaviour (@voices.with.vanshika) What children really pick up onChildren are often more perceptive than adults assume, adds Dr Shankar. “Even in the absence of overt conflict, they can sense tension, detachment, or unspoken issues between parents. Growing up in such an environment can lead to confusion, insecurity, and anxiety.”She further explains that children may also internalise unhealthy relationship patterns, such as believing that love requires self-sacrifice or that emotional needs should be suppressed. Over time, this can affect how they communicate, form bonds, and navigate relationships in their own lives.ALSO READ | Chhote bachhe batameezi karte hainStrained together vs healthy apartFrom a modern mental health perspective, the quality of the environment matters more than the structure of the family.Story continues below this ad“Children benefit more from emotionally stable, respectful surroundings—whether parents are together or separated. Witnessing a strained relationship can normalise conflict, resentment, or emotional withdrawal. In contrast, children raised by separated but emotionally healthy parents are more likely to develop stronger emotional intelligence, healthier boundaries, and a more secure sense of self,” adds Dr Shankar.DISCLAIMER: This article is based on information from the public domain and/or the experts we spoke to. For more lifestyle news, click here to join our WhatsApp Channel and also follow us on Instagram© IE Online Media Services Pvt LtdTags:Amitabh Bachchan