Yep! My 5yo surprise antibiotic baby asks constantly for a sibling. Like baby girl, we were planning on adopting when we weren't dirt poor, and we are just barely providing you the best we can, that alone takes a village, and it only gets more expensive and more difficult every day. I honestly couldn't do that to the family members who help out with my kid. They provide a lot for us. Her great aunt and grandma watch her while I work, and like I said they help with a lot of her needs. She's very academically advanced for her age, and great aunt wants to help pay for charter school to ensure she isn't put aside in the traditional system. I could never on mine and my husband's wages. We really didn't have the resources to have a child, hence why I was on BC. But I feel like (for me at least) to get pregnant again, and have another child I can't support when I already have a child they help me care/provide for, would be a slap in the face to every single person in our village. I don't understand people who just procreate and procreate without any regard for how mentally, emotionally, financially, and physically exhausting only ONE child can be. Just assuming that everyone is going to keep filling in the gaps for you due to a sense of obligation/duty to take care of your children out of pity. Bonkers. It's just absolute banana sandwiches, man.