Yes, this. My husband's coworker invited us to their wedding late this summer and provided a very thoughtful gift registry ranging from $10 kitchen utensils to open ended contributions to their honeymoon and to bigger purchase goals. Dress code is wide open based on the well known and loved venue and includes a nice buffet and cash bar. Because their efforts to be welcoming and inclusive are obvious, it's my pleasure to give generously and to include personal touches...despite the fact that I've never met the happy couple. This bullshit yapping about "deserving " from random strangers? Oh fuck no.