Again, parenting existed long before screens, what do you think they did? We watch bluey and old star treck reruns as a family while I have my me time knitting. Thats the difference, enguagement, monitoring, conversation. I never called you an unfit parent, you are being given the facts is all. Ask your elders for parenting advice. Ask the nice older lady at the local store, ask your friends father in law, ask the old biddies at the quilting guild, or the grandparents at the park. Ask them what they did because they did manage before screens and phones, i promise you.