This sounds good, but reality doesn't work that. We don't live in a vacuum; people and business have finite resources. Let's say there is enough money for 1,000 meals... In practice, that means that if 99 people out of 100 DON'T NEED IT, you have only "helped" 10 people. On the other hand, asking for some kind of proof may HELP 900 or 1,000 people. What's greater? 10 or 1,000? Who the fuck cares? I DO.