On his father-in-law Narendra Tripathi’s 70th birthday, Vivek Dahiya shared a heartwarming memory he cherishes. In his YouTube vlog, he recalled meeting him just before proposing to his wife, actor Divyanka Tripathi.“I met my father-in-law when I went to Bengaluru, just before I proposed to my wife on December 14, 2015. That’s the first time I’ve met him. We met as a family. We were discussing our concerns, just like when a wedding happens. So, at that time, he spoke very little but to the point. He shared that our daughter is very dear to us. She is already a star, and there will be differences and comparisons, toh usko kabhi dil par nahi lena. (Don’t take it to heart). Ek raat ke liye uncle the phir papa bann gaye. (He was an uncle for a night and became papa for me). Maine kaha inko bahut dhakka lagne wala hai kyunki main inki beti ko propose karne wala hun. Inko idea nahi hai. Woh bhi the same night (He had no idea that I was about to propose to his daughter that very night),” recollected Dahiya.Dahiya added that just after the proposal, Divyanka‘s father cried like a baby. “Woh raat ko hua (the proposal happened at night), and I remember that he cried. He appeared like a strict father, but after what unfolded, that’s when I realised he is a softie. Yeh toh meri tarah hai. (He is just like me from the inside),” shared Dahiya.He also appreciated his father-in-law for being a people person and understanding the person’s temperament, even without questioning. “I am obliged, and for me, you are the most amazing human being. It is a big compliment that Divyanka chose me because if she sees her father’s qualities in me, then I am truly grateful,” shared Vivek. View this post on Instagram A post shared by Divyanka Tripathi Dahiya (@divyankatripathidahiya)First meetings with a partner’s parents can become opportunities for genuine connection. While it’s easy to get lost in the nervousness of the situation, first meetings can also be opportunities for authentic connection, said Dr Chandni Tugnait, psychotherapist, coach and healer, founder and director, Gateway of Healing.“As you try to be on your best behaviour, letting your true self shine through is important. Showing that you genuinely care about your partner, their family, and their values will establish trust. These initial interactions can be the first step in building a long-term relationship with your partner and their family,” said Dr Tugnait.Most often, first meetings with a partner’s parents can feel like an audition you didn’t quite rehearse for. “Every gesture, word, and expression feels amplified as you strive to make the best possible impression. The nerves are natural because you’re meeting people who are integral to your partner’s life and have shaped them into who they are. This can add an extra layer of pressure to behave in a way that aligns with their values while staying true to themselves,” described Dr Tugnait.Also Read | Tejasswi Prakash shares mantra for successful relationship: ‘Karan was very clear that we can’t…’So, what truly breaks the ice are “shared experiences” that help build rapport. “Talking about mutual interests or even lighthearted anecdotes from your partner’s life can ease the tension and create a sense of familiarity. In this way, the nerves can be channelled into more meaningful conversations, establishing a sense of ease and connection,” said Dr Tugnait.📣 For more lifestyle news, click here to join our WhatsApp Channel and also follow us on Instagram© IE Online Media Services Pvt Ltd