You did a kind and good thing for the women and children in shelters. You didn’t need to bring your family anything but did so anyway and their greedy hands were upset you didn’t give them more. It's just sad. When I grew up 80% of my closet was secondhand because clothes are expensive and it's only now as an adult I've bought new clothes (that I liked) for myself. If you had given me a trash bag full of clothes I would've been happy and grateful, and if I didn't like something in it it wouldn’ve either gone to someone else I knew or the shelter.