Who’s moving the goalposts now? Wasn’t it ‘her home too’ originally? She’s an employee. She abides by the rules of her workplace. If the workplace closes its doors midnight til 7am, that’s for the employer to decide. If the homeowner does not want people coming in or leaving during the night or bringing guests to their home, that’s within their rights. She can do whatever she wants in her ‘down time’ - except disturb the home owner during the night or bring guests. Hardly unreasonable demands. I’ve stayed at hotels that were stricter and I was the one who had to pay to stay there..