My turn for what? I’m 15 years younger than you, just waiting for my investment property to sell next week and then I’ll be mortgage free. I’m retired already except for a hobby of an Etsy shop that probably makes more than you do for two hours a day, but that’s just pocket money. I’m not as long married as you but I ain’t as old either so by the time I get to your age it’ll have been longer, one man since I was 18. Never felt the need to have him mooch around my workplace because I’m not a needy, co-dependent person who can’t have a life of her own. People who bring their spouses to the office to just hang there for no reason are gross. Even worse if he actually works there too. It’s pathetic.