Im confused about the list of soda, which by the way is nice but not a necessity. Please forgive me not trying to be rude, but people who have stomach issues like yours are advised against soda. Second, if your social skills are as well as you say they are then you may not be on the spectrum. I have autism and struggle greatly with social skills. I would also like to point out that I grew up poor and when you can't afford the top of the line, you simply can't and settle for less. I understand people want nice things and people should have them when they can afford it. Its not fair to ask complete strangers to come out of their pockets for top groceries, when they already do by your ability to receive food stamps. Lastly, food stamps are not meant for you to be able to eat like a king with steak, seafood etc., it is meant to sustain you and your family with food. With the price point rising constantly maybe some things have to wait or be cheaper. Again I understand struggle I really do, and im not trying to shame you or insult you.