Fuck, my ex husband is unemployed and has been watching the kids while I'm at work. Least he can do, honestly. Son had a tonsillectomy and had a tiny bit of bleeding at the 2 week mark. Instead of calling the doctor, he called me at work so I could call the doctor. It's so pathetic. Weaponized incompetence, but it works because I won't let the kids suffer to prove a point.