Life on the shelf. The position of the Intimate Partner Secondary Source Other commentators talk about the standard cycle of the narcissist being idealisation, then devaluation, then dis-engagement (or discard) and then hoovering. This is just one dynamic of many. None realise that there are many other dynamics and one in particular which is […]The post Shelf Life : What’s Going On? appeared first on HG Tudor - Knowing The Narcissist - The World's No.1 Resource About Narcissism.