Right. We have definitely received our fair share of snarky and passive aggressive comments. Have multiples if you can afford it nothing wrong with that. Some people want big families. But the ones who have multiples and then drop those snarky comments whenever they find out you went on a vacation, did something fun on the weekend, went out to eat, bought your kid what they feel like is too many nice things, are insufferable to deal with. They come across as bitter and jealous. We had the number of kids we could comfortably afford!! So we can continue to do the things we still enjoy doing. To still be able to travel and visit new places.