The Bachelorette and The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives almost had a crossover moment — and it went exactly as chaotically as you’d expect. Former Mormon Wives cast member Taylor Frankie Paul was scheduled to premiere as the latest in a long line of Bachelorettes before her other past role — that of an abuser — came back into focus, leaving ABC with little choice but to cancel the entire season. On March 19, just three days before The Bachelorette was set to premiere, TMZ released a video showing Paul attacking her former boyfriend Dakota Mortensen in an incident that resulted in her daughter being struck by a chair. These shows are not exactly known for being drama-free, but even reality TV has its limits — and abuse is apparently where ABC decided to draw the line. ABC released a statement saying, “In light of the newly released video surfaced today, we have made the decision to not move forward with the new season of The Bachelorette at this time, and our focus is on supporting the family.” The wording suggests this was new information to the network, which is… interesting, considering Paul was arrested back in 2023 — the same year the incident occurred — on suspicion of domestic violence. It’s quite rare for anything to slip past the Disney machine. Even Jonathan Majors couldn’t survive the company’s strict stance on abuse allegations, with the Marvel Cinematic Universe forced to recalibrate its long-term plans because of his case. The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives might be a draw, but clearly not enough for Disney to compromise on its publicly stated values — at least not when the footage is this explicit. Paul was arrested on February 13, 2023, facing charges that included assault, criminal mischief, and domestic violence in the presence of her children. According to reports, she later pled guilty to aggravated assault and is currently serving a three-year probation set to run through August. She has also addressed the incident publicly, including on the podcast Call Her Daddy, where she claimed the chair hitting her child was unintentional. Which makes it even harder to believe that the video itself was the first time ABC became aware of the situation. More likely, it wasn’t the existence of the incident — it was the optics of it resurfacing right before premiere. There are some PR fires you can spin, and then there are some you just step away from entirely. Paul, for her part, called the video a distraction. Through her representatives, she released a statement saying, “After years of silently suffering extensive physical abuse as well as threats of retaliation, Taylor is finally gaining the strength to face her accuser and taking steps to ensure that she and her children are protected from any further harm.” Mortensen’s representatives responded in kind, stating, “He knew there was a possibility [the video] could come out, but he was not going to be the one to proactively do that because he has always wanted a decent relationship with Taylor.” The back-and-forth suggests this situation is still very much unresolved — legally, emotionally, and publicly. And while reality TV thrives on conflict, some storylines don’t translate into entertainment. Some things are just too real for reality TV.