When I first got married to my now ex husband, I had to sleep on the couch and babysit a demonic 2 yo kid (his friend and his wife's kid)from 8am-10pm 7 days a week while he was at A-school for the Navy and only there on weekends 0/10 do not recommend and they seriously asked me to use our BAH (basic allowance for housing) to pay them rent for me to continue the arrangement .... I almost laughed in their face